Is this a scene you’re familiar with? Music is blaring, kids are fighting, a teenager is grumbling over the lost homework papers, Dad can’t find his keys, the dog is barking, uneaten dinner is cold on the table, you grab a pop tart and head to parent teacher conferences. Who the heck ever said that home is a haven of peace?
I am here to tell you that it actually can be. The dream can become reality. I’m not saying things will always run perfectly, but home can, and ought to, be a safe place where you can unwind, relax, enjoy each other’s company, regroup and recharge. Read on to learn 7 simple changes you can make to begin transforming your home into a place where all your family wants to be.
Note: Did you notice that I said, “changes you can make” not, how to force others to be different? This is all about what you can do–whether you are the parent or a child in a family that is less than ideal. (I can tell you from experience that a child implementing these same steps can have a huge impact on the entire family.) + READ MORE
Apr 20 2011
Posted by admin as Home & Family
Home and family! Both the words go hand in hand. One cannot have a home without a good and well-knitted family to live in it with, and without a home, a family cannot survive. A good and caring family is what any human being on this earth desires and craves for. But sadly, in today’s time, which is marked by too much job pressure, fatigue, stress, and anxiety, we often tend to push family second in our list of priorities. This is a huge loss, both personally and professionally for an individual. Having a nice home and family, is a blessing for every person.
We must understand the importance of family and the family members around us. It is necessary for us to treat them with respect, love and importance. You must show that you take care of people around you and take pain and effort to consolidate your relationship with them.
Remember, it is not the quantity but quality of time that you spend with your loved ones, which strengthens your relationship. Sitting at home watching TV or surfing net is not going to do any good to your relationship with your children, spouse or parents. + READ MORE
Home and family are two inseparable concepts that provide significant experiences that help shape and form a person. The home is commonly construed as the resultant relationship of persons who have special sense of belongingness dwelling in a house. As such, the structural designs of a house does not automatically provide a home for its dwellers but rather, it is the relationship and bond that are created among the members of the family that provides the feeling of being at home.
On the other hand, the family is universally referred to as the persons living in the house. The family is the actors and actresses that give life and spirit to the house as a home and the group of persons as a family. Although the legal and traditional concepts of a family require civil or blood ties, the idea of a family has already developed into more than the actual legal ties and kinship. It is the relationship among the persons itself that determines a family and not the aforementioned ties. As such, not all members of the family who dwells in one house feel at home and consider each other as part of the family. This awful situation requires paradigm shift and behavioral changes of the persons coupled with understanding and patience to remedy and heal their relationship and avoid the total disintegration of their bond. + READ MORE